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Shower Games
Here is a good idea: buy a scrap book and use a Polaroid camera. As guests
arrive as well as during the shower the guests get their picture taken with the
bride to be and place it in the scrap book with a place for the guest to sign
their name. The pictures are a documentary that shows who was there as well as
the fun you all had. The bride will really love the idea of nice memories of her
shower. With the rest of the pages in the scrap book, fill them with picture's
of the shower games, and the fun time that you had. Also this isn't really a
game, but it is a good wedding shower ice breaker. Go around the room and have
each guest spend no longer than 30 seconds telling everyone who they are and how
they know the bride and groom. This will loosen everyone up for the games:
Fold Over:
On the first line of a long sheet of paper, write a sentence referring to the
bride as if you were beginning a poem (like "Scott and Rebecca met at school").
Attach the paper to a clipboard and pass it to a guest, instructing her to
compose a line right below the first, continuing the verse ("She was pretty and
he was strong"). This guest folds the paper so that only the newest line shows,
and passes the clipboard to the next guest, and so on. When the paper has
circulated to every guest, the maid of honor should retrieve the paper, unfold
it, and read the funny poem to the bride.
Comments the Bride-to-be Makes:
Have someone in charge of writing down all the comments the bride-to-be makes as
she opens her shower gifts. Then after the presents have been opened, have
someone with great expressions read them back to the bride. These are
supposed to be some of the comments she'll make on the night of her wedding
(like oh, it's so cute; my mom has one of those and uses it all the time; do
you think they would mind if I exchanged this, I've already got one!) Lot's of
fun, especially for a young bride.
Clothespin Game:
The clothespin game is where everyone, upon arrival, is given a clothespin and has
to pin it on their clothes where it is plainly visible. Then you make up a rule
like, "No one can cross their legs" or "you are not allowed to say the word
"wedding" or "you can't use the word 'pretty' in describing a gift the bride
receives" whatever rule you want. If a guest catches anyone breaking the rule,
they can run over and take that person's clothespin. The person at the end of
the shower, or whenever, with the most clothespins wins a prize.
Toilet Paper Gown:
You can pick the future mother-in-law and mother to volunteer for this game. You
make two different teams, one team for each mother and then you dress them up
in a wedding dress using only toilet paper. This is a timed game. The bride or a
committee of bridal party members can judge. Winning team gets a prize!
What's in the Bag?:
This game is similar to the game Memory. Fill a bag with related items - kitchen
stuff, bathroom stuff, etc. and pass the bag among the guests. Everyone gets 30
- 60 seconds to look at the contents of the bag before they have to pass it to
the next guest. Once everyone has had a look, ask the guests to make a list from
memory of what was in the bag. The person with the most correct answers, wins
the game!
12 Questions For the Groom:
Prepare before the shower by asking the groom 12 questions, such as when and
where was your first kiss? How many children do you want? What nickname do you
call her? Then at the shower sit the bride-to-be in front of all her guests.
Begin to ask her these questions. For every one she gets wrong she is to put a
piece of bubble gum in her mouth and chew it. I hope she knows her guy!
Wedding Win Lose or Draw Kit:
Pictionary with only wedding related words and phrases. Like "tie the knot",
"honeymoon" etc. Break the party into two teams. One person draws while the rest
of her team guesses what she's drawing. Use an artists easel and a large pad of
paper with big markers.
Two Truths & A Lie:
Each guest must introduce herself and then tell the group three things about
herself: two are true, one is a lie. Then the remaining guests must each
guess which statement was false. When each guest has placed her bet, the "liar"
must confess to her lie. The truths are often way wackier than the made-up lies
Words of Wisdom:
Tuck a pretty blank card into the shower invitations and include a note asking
guests to inscribe the card with their advice for a happy marriage. They should
come to the shower prepared to read their card to the group. Their words of
wisdom, encouragement, and well-wishing can be in the form of a recipe, a poem,
a humorous anecdote, and so on. Encourage guests to be creative. After all the
cards have been read, the maid of honor can compile them in a scrapbook for the
bride.
Name Game:
Before the shower, make a list of pairs that belong together (for example: Mork
& Mindy, chips & dip, peanut butter & jelly). Write down names (one half of a
pair) on labels, post-its, or sticky nametags. As the guests arrive, slap a tag
to their back so that everyone else can see their name but no guest will know
his or her own identity. Have guests mingle about posing yes-or-no questions to
each other. Examples: "Am I a fictional character?" "Am I living?"
"Am I a food?"
Their mission is to determine who they are, and to pair up with their "other
half". The game doesn't end until everyone finds his or her partner.
Purse Raid:
This classic shower game requires that every guest bring her purse to the
shower. Before guests arrive, the maid of honor creates a list of objects that
are likely to be found in guests' purses. Items can be ordinary (lipstick,
powder, credit card) or crazy (used tissue, underwear, a condom), but they
should start out ordinary and become increasingly more obscure. At the shower,
the maid of honor calls out the items on the list and the first guest to produce
each object wins a small prize.
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